Oh yes! Believe it or not, I'm old enough to say that 25 years ago yesterday I began my life as an Anderson. I remember my wedding with such vividness and although a lot of water has passed under that bridge, it still amazes me that it's been so many years. It's shocking to look in the mirror and realize I'm not the young whipper snapper that I used to be. Those crows feet are edging out of the corners of my eyes and I have a permanent crease in my brow. But as I think of all the experiences that brought on those lines and wrinkles, I can honestly say each one played a vital role in making me who I am today. Looking at my incredible man, I can't begin to imagine what my life would be without him! We've certainly had our ups and downs, like any normal relationship, but the key is we've come out on top with a deeper love and appreciation for each other. I naively chose him to be my companion and if I had known 25 years ago what I know now, I would've strapped him down and forced him to marry me the moment I met him! He's the best thing that could've happened to my life and I thank the Lord every day for him.
I was pondering on the different paths my life could've taken and it kind of scared me, to be quite truthful. I could've pushed him aside to wait for my "missionary", I could've ignored his attempts to woo me in order to go to college and pursue a degree in music (that wouldn't have gotten me very far!), or I could've selfishly given him the boot at any point in our courtship because I was too scared to take a chance on the unknown. Instead, I gave up my missionary, put aside my own education in order to help him achieve his, and I took a chance. I have absolutely no regrets!!!! He's given me more than I ever could've dreamed off. We take the best parts of each other and have made a oneness that can never be broken.
Babe, I can't wait to see what the next 25 years holds in store for us! I love you!
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Happy Anniversary, Jay & Lorie!
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