Monday, April 20, 2009

Post wedding


Well, it's over. I can't believe it! And I have one word to describe the event...AWESOME!!!!!!

We woke to a miserable rain/sleet/snow storm but not even the weather could dampen everyone's spirits. We left Jayson and Jordan Lee in charge of the littles while Jay and I drove Cecy and Andy down to the temple. The roads were bad and we passed several slide offs, but we made it safe and sound. Walking into the bride's room with my daughter was surreal and I kept thinking it had to be a dream. I'd imagined that day so many times in my mind and to actually be experiencing it was unbelievable. Cecy was so beautiful and she absolutely glowed. She was simply stunning and it was all I could do not to bawl my eyes out.

The ceremony was incredible and the words spoken were a priceless reminder of what marriage is all about. I couldn't help but think back to my own wedding day and watching my daughter make those same covenants was humbling.

When we came out of the temple to take pictures, it was almost a total white out! We tried taking one group photo on the temple steps but I'm not sure the photographer could even see our faces! Of course, by then everyone looked like a water-logged rat. A few more pictures were taken by the atrium but we finally gave up. I think the plan is for Cec and her man to head back down to the temple on a better day and have some post wedding pictures taken.

We drove back up to Brigham and on the way passed several more accidents. In fact, one accident had the freeway to a stand still but luckily it was on the south bound lanes and not the north bound lanes. We made it to the luncheon just in time and had a delicious, relaxing lunch. Andy's aunt had put together a darling photo montage and it was fun to watch the newlyweds progress from infants to adults.

When the luncheon was over, we booked it over to the church where the reception was being held and the fun began! We had set most of it up the day before, so it was just a matter of finishing touches but my stress level shot through the roof as I ran hither and yon trying to make sure everything was just perfect. Cecy finally grabbed my arms and told me to stop and just breathe. The room looked so beautiful and springy, despite the weather outside. The cake was gorgeous, the refreshments aplenty and the bubbling fountain set the ambiance. People started arriving early and the line didn't let up until well after the bewitching hour of eight o'clock. Andy said at the stroke of eight he was headed out the door, regardless of the fact that the newspaper announcement said the reception wasn't ending until nine! That's a groom for ya! It was so wonderful to see all the people who came to support Cecy and Andy and to reconnect with friends and family. By the end of the evening my feet ached like an old man in women's shoes, my smile muscles were frozen in place and I was more exhausted than I ever could've imagined. We madly cleaned things up and made numerous hauls of gifts to the newlywed's apartment and tried desperately to hand off the remaining refreshments. We had filled and decorated over 700 cupcakes and hand dipped a bazillion strawberries in chocolate, and we had a ton left over. We had anticipated many more to be consumed and after pawning as much off as we could, we came home with four boxes of cupcakes, four huge cans of nuts and mints and two full trays of strawberries. Not even a week later, the cupcakes have all been eaten, the strawberries only lasted two days and we've been snacking on nuts and mints non-stop. One good thing about having a large family is left overs of any kind don't last too long!

All in all, it was a wonderful day celebrating the love of two wonderful people. I know in my heart that Andy will treasure Cecy and take care of her better than I could. He adores her and she him. It's bliss to see your child so happy and content, and know their lives will be eternally blessed.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Friday, April 3, 2009





Just a few more pictures from our very special day!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

I have so much going on right now in my life, and so many things I could blog about but where to start? Of course, on the top of my list is the weddings. It's so strange for me to realize I've grown up enough to have adult children making adult decisions in their own lives. I really feel like I should still be a young mom myself!

As I've watched my kids grow, I've always wondered what kind of adult they would make. So far, they're incredible! I credit it to the amazing dad they have. He's a much better parent than I am and I would fail miserably without him. Jayson is so much like his dad, always has been. He will be an incredible husband and father, I just know it. And Cecy is a tender hearted, loving, giving woman. She has so much self confidence, much more than I ever had at her age, and she is so compassionate. I can envision them both as parents and I'm filled with pride. I just can't believe they are at this stage in life!

My mind races constantly with things that need to be done for the weddings and I'm overwhelmed. Most of Cecy's is pretty well done and it's too early to be able to do much for Jayson's, but it's as if the wedding fairy has hit me so hard on the noggin' that I can't keep a thought in my useless brain for more than two seconds. It's that nagging, "I'm missing something big" thought that keeps circling around. Eeekgads!

The other kids are taking advantage of Mom's delirium and running wild. In fact, the two little ones are wrecking havoc in the basement as I type. Do I care? Not too much right now. I'm sure I will later, but I can't muster up the strength to care right now. Janzyn is down for a nap (bliss!) and I really need to do some laundry but here I sit. Speaking of the little J-man, he's becoming carnivorous now that he finally broke a tooth through. He gums everything in site and is even known to rummage through the garbage to find morsels. His all time favorite, however, is the dog dish and there's been many a time I've had to go fishing for kibble. What a kid! He's close to walking, despite my attempts to continually push him back down every time he tries. Not ready for that!

Well, enough rambling for now. It's lunch time! My growling stomach tells me so.